I don’t pretend to understand how the news business works these days. Oh, I know the mechanics of it—reporters, editors, headline writers, the whole circus of cameras and microphones.
What I don’t understand is the selective memory of it all. Some stories are blasted across our screens day and night for weeks, while others disappear quicker than a fried shrimp platter at a church potluck.
Take, for instance, this recent shooting involving a boat, a seafood restaurant, and a man who decided violence was the catch of the day. Three people lost their lives, and eight more were wounded. That should be the kind of thing that makes headlines and keeps them there for a long time, if only to honor the victims and shine a light on what really happened.
But no. The story popped up, bobbed on the surface like a cork, and then sank straight to the bottom. Try to find it now, and you’ll see more about Taylor Swift’s cat or some Hollywood gossip than about this tragedy. It’s as if someone hit the “delete” button on public memory.
The fellow who pulled the trigger happens to be a registered Democrat in North Carolina. Suddenly, the story lost its legs.
If he’d had a different voter card in his wallet, you can bet it would be the headline from here to next Sunday. The press would be busy linking his political registration to every decision he ever made, right down to whether he liked his hush puppies crispy or soft.
But since he carries the “wrong” affiliation for their narrative, the silence is deafening. Now, before you roll your eyes and say, “Oh, here we go again—another rant about the media,” let me tell you this isn’t a rant.
It’s a fireside chat with a little common sense sprinkled in.
Let’s start with the obvious–killing people is evil. I don’t care if the shooter was a Democrat, a Republican, a Green Party tree-hugger, or a guy who only votes for the winner of the hot-dog-eating contest.
Wrong is wrong. Lives are lost, families shattered, and party affiliation won’t fill the hole in the world, and we ought to grieve together, not tally political points.
But here’s where the rub comes in. We’ve gotten so used to media spin that we almost expect the truth to come with a political filter.
If the facts align with the preferred narrative, they get blasted until we’re weary of hearing them. If they don’t fit, they get buried like last week’s fish heads.
And so, this boat-restaurant-shooting story barely had time to surface before being dropped overboard. The narrative that “only certain types of people commit mass shootings” is too valuable to risk.
Heaven forbid the public should learn that violence doesn’t care about party lines.
Now, I’m not saying the shooter wasn’t struggling with mental health issues. Anyone who thinks shooting into a crowd is a good idea is not thinking clearly.
But isn’t it funny how mental illness is only talked about when it helps the spin? If the suspect had been wearing a red hat instead of a blue one, the headlines would scream about “domestic extremism.”
But since he wasn’t, the fallback excuse is “mental health,” which is convenient, because we all know murderers have mental health issues, or they wouldn’t do what they do.
Here is where I think we need a dose of old-fashioned honesty: not everything has to be part of a political game. Some things—like grieving with families who’ve lost loved ones, or working together to make sure restaurants and boats are safe places again—are bigger than party affiliation.
But honesty is secondary when you’re chasing clicks instead of truth. The media has turned into that neighbor who can’t resist telling half a story.
You know the type. “Did you hear about Joe’s accident?” and then stop, leaving you to wonder whether Joe broke his leg or backed over the mailbox, dangling information like bait, but never serving the entire plate.
Meanwhile, we’re left to figure it out ourselves. Some of us dig through public records.
Some of us compare different news outlets like we’re piecing together a jigsaw puzzle. And some of us give up, deciding it’s easier to believe the headlines about celebrity divorces than to untangle the mess of real news.
That’s a shame. Because real stories, with real people and real consequences, matter far more than celebrity trivia.
Let me tell you something, my dad used to say when we went fishing. We’d be out on the KLamath, poles over the water, waiting for a nibble.
Dad would point to a floating stick or a bit of debris and say, “Don’t pay attention to what’s on the surface, son. Pay attention to what’s going on underneath. That’s where the big fish are.”
He was right about fishing, and he’s right about news, too. What’s underneath the surface is often more important than what’s floating on top.
The surface tells you what they want you to see. Underneath is where the truth swims.
So, what do we do about this disappearing-headline problem?
First, we stop relying on any single outlet for our news. It’s like eating only one thing for every meal.
Sure, I love fried chicken, but if that’s all I ate, I’d be in worse shape than the fellow who invented gravy on everything. We need variety.
Different perspectives. Sources that don’t march in lockstep.
Second, we need to ask questions. When a story vanishes, ask why.
When details are vague, ask what’s missing. A healthy skepticism isn’t cynicism; it’s common sense.
And third, we need to remind ourselves that truth isn’t fragile. It doesn’t need protecting from inconvenient facts.
If the shooter in North Carolina was a Democrat, say so. If a Republican, say so.
If he were an independent who spent his evenings watching reruns of Gilligan’s Island, say that too. Hiding it only makes people suspicious, and suspicion feeds division.
Bring it out into the open, and at least folks can decide what to do with it. Bury it, and it stinks.
So let’s not bury this tragedy. Let’s not forget the three lives cut short or the eight wounded.
Let’s not let them get erased because the shooter’s voter card made the wrong headlines. We owe the victims more respect than that.
We also owe ourselves more honesty. Because when stories disappear, trust disappears with them. And without trust, society starts to look like that leaky boat from the shooting—taking on water, drifting, and in danger of sinking.
At the end of the day, I think we all want the same thing–to live in a world where truth matters, where loss is acknowledged, and where tragedies aren’t swept under the rug to protect somebody’s political comfort. And maybe, if we demand that kind of honesty, we’ll find ourselves back in calmer waters.
Until then, keep your life jacket handy, because in this media storm, you never know which headlines will sink next.